BOY FRIEND & GIRL FRIEND (part I)

Boy Friend & Girl Friend, Is this Muslim Activity or Disbeliever activity?

As salaam alaikum wa rehmatullahi wa barkatuhu

1.) A common mania has become widespread in Muslim society where young Muslim man is under some strange and unknown relationship with non Maharam Muslim woman which is known as “BOY FRIEND or GIRL FRIEND”. If you ask what is relation they say ” we are just friends”. This is clear trap of Shaitan to slowly mislead them to Hell through zina. ALLAAH has clearly said in His glorious BOOK 

(a)Surah Al-Maeda, Verse 5:

, nor taking them as girl-friends…

(English – Mohsin Khan)…      This is for Muslim man.

(b)For Muslim woman ALLAAH,Azza wa jal declared in His BOOK 

Surah An-Nisa, Verse 25:

, nor taking boy-friends…
(English – Mohsin Khan)

(2) How Shaitan Makes them appear this relationship which is way to hell beautiful?

(a) Muslim man & woman look to each other where the first foot of shaitan begins which ALLAAH,Azza wa Jal & His Messenger (peace be upon him ) has prohibited. 

—>For Muslim man looking at non Maharam is highly prohibited

Surah An-Noor, Verse 30:

Tell the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things), and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.). That is purer for them. Verily, Allah is All-Aware of what they do.(English – Mohsin Khan)

and Muslim woman looking at non Maharam man is highly prohibited 

Surah An-Noor, Verse 31:

And tell the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things), and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.) …

(English – Mohsin Khan)

Jareer ibn ‘Abdullaah said: “I asked the Messenger of Allaah (Peace & Blessings of Allaah be upon Him) about an accidental glance at a woman. He commanded me to turn my gaze away.”
(Reported by al-Tirmidhi, who said: This is a saheeh hasan hadeeth. See al-Sunan, 2700

The Messenger of Allaah (Peace & Blessings of Allaah be upon Him) said: “O Ali, do not follow a glance with another, for you will be forgiven for the first, but not for the second.”

(Reported by al-Tirmidhi, 2701; see Saheeh al-Jaami’, 7953)
This is also applicable for woman.

Next footstep of shaitan is continued…..in part II

ALLAAH knows best.

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